Thursday, February 7, 2019

EMBRACING THE UNEXPECTED




Remember a few weeks back I said I'd chosen to "embrace the unexpected," and that the word unexpected had already appeared on my radar?

The word was well-chosen, because unexpected keeps showing up. It's not a blip--more like a permanent resident.

So far we've had unexpected high temps--today's high forecast at 58 degrees! Tonight's low, 16 degrees!

I thought it was winter, at least until closer to March 20th.

We're naming winter storms now--last I saw was Winter Storm Lucian. If we're up to the L's, we're nearly halfway through the alphabet. Hmmm.....

We could say that winter weather--storms, ice, heavy snow, even freezing rain--isn't unexpected. Up here in the north country, those conditions are what winter is all about, right?

Yesterday we had fog--not quite a pea-souper, but close. I drove home from a shopping trip in a nearby town below my usual speed, with eyes peeled for sudden appearances of other vehicles I didn't expect.

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Basically, I'm getting a crash course in embracing the unexpected. 

I've figured out a few ways to deal with some of these changes. For instance:

--keep three seasons of clothes out and available--long heavyweight sweats and turtle neck tops; medium weight fitness clothes and tee-shirts; fitness capris and tank tops. Socks in all weights. Shoes ditto. Coats of all types.

--fill the freezer with meals that vary from light and lean to hearty and filling.


--make sure there's entertainment available for frozen-in-solid days; books and DVDs work well when the chores are done. Plus, DVDs are great while I'm doing those chores.

--pull out unfinished projects (called UFOs by quilters and others) and actually finish one of them!

--get used to shopping whenever the street and driveway are cleared of ice and snow--never mind what day it is or even the time of day.



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I've figured out a couple more things:

1. Don't try to anticipate the unexpected. (A no-brainer, right? But once you've experienced the chaos of The Unexpected, you begin to speculate. Resist that temptation.)

2. Take notes. Who knows? Those moments/days/week-upon-week of chaos might make a good blog post some time in the future; or not.

3. Look for meaning. Remember this: On Christmas Eve, a bunch of shepherds were visited by angelic beings bringing them an enormous message. Now, that's unexpected.

4. Don't worry if you don't get a great big Life Lesson every time. Or any time. You might. You might not.

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Have a blessed week.






3 comments:

  1. Are we naming winter storms because it's more likely that we'll have more than one each year? So we can differentiate between the blizzard of January 2019 and the blizzard of February 2019? I guess we were lucky in '78. What's next, naming ice storms, foggy days?

    You might want to edit the word "crash" out of your post about the unexpected. Why tempt fate?

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  2. Good thinking, Dori. And happy birt'day, BTW!

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